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Friday, December 15, 2006

01:08 Focus, Mr. Lira
Mia was busying herself in the kitchen. She had never been a tidy person by nature, but during her seventies, the habit of untidiness had left her. She'd simply grown out of messiness, the way a child might shed a tooth. After that, Mia always washed the dishes, always made her bed, always picked up loose objects and filed them away. Living that way was quicker and simpler and made every kind of sense to her. Litter and disorder no longer gave her any sense of relaxation or freedom or spontaneity. It had taken her seventy years to learn how to clean up after herself, but once she had learned the trick of it, it was impossible to go back.
from Holy Fire, by Bruce Sterling

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Sunday, November 12, 2006

11:32 Today
Amsterdam to Pandapolis - time to put our roof gardens to sleep - Autumn has settled in with much sudden hail and gusty winds - biking without gloves no longer an option. I'm ready for it. I think.

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Monday, April 17, 2006

12:05 Ham

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Wednesday, April 05, 2006

22:54 This is what I do now
I listen a lot to Martha Wainwright (Factory!), The Magnetic Fields (The Luckiest Guy on the Lower East Side!) and now also a bit of Broken Social Scene.

I design while I listen.

I found out that it's good to make time to go to Hortus, the Amsterdam Botanical Gardens. It is the oldest one in the world, and only one block away from my studio. I now go there to read and to see spring unfold. It feels wonderful.

New times / new ideas / new sensations.

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Sunday, April 02, 2006

17:06 Anew
All things pass. Even long lasting irritation, anger and stubbornness. Hello again. I realised I missed you this week, and decided to make a small gesture. It may have been imperceptible but it means a lot to me.

It's excellent to see some bad feelings finally change into something benign and how they take their good old time till that happens. You know that is so when there isn't even any need to say or hear "I'm sorry".

Good things, being part of all things, will pass too of course. So while I have now plenty of new beginnings I remind myself to enjoy them for what they are. It's quite a task.

I spent Chistmas night at the Luxor Temple, with Joe by my side, under a crisp winter sky packed with stars. O Thebes, your time has come, and as all things pass you too will pass, said the perfectly camp voice over (British accent) that took us through what's left of great visionary plans of the past. The ruins themselves are in shambles and you can physically see them crumbling right in front of you eyes. They teach you as they go.

As to posting, I finally feel the drive again, several times a day, and it's just like before: hard.

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Friday, October 14, 2005

11:33 Herfst in Den Haag
Just in: a fresh Autumn image from The Hague, taken by my friend Claudio Poles. A proof that the world remains an interesting place.


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Tuesday, October 11, 2005

14:16 Farewell to Matja Kerbosch
My friend Matja Kerbosch passed away last Saturday, after struggling with cancer for many years.

For those who didn't have the chance to know her, Matja was the coordinator of the design department of the Sandberg Institute in its early days. She took excellent care of me while I studied there - and once even treated me to a visit to the Open Air Museum in Enkhuizen (quite a trip that was, in many ways).

We kept occasional contact since my graduation; I'd come by once in a while to help out with her computer and to eat tasty ultra-vegetarian snacks. Earlier this year we met a few times again and Matja came by to visit my new place and to teach me some gardening basics, which resulted in a nice terrace with many big, happy plants. The woman knew her stuff.

A precious tip from Matja and her girlfriend Dore: good soil - with organic fertilizer - can be found at the old-fashioned natuurwinkel De Aanzet, in the Frans Halsstraat 27. Go there once! The place is amazing.

Matja and Dore had just moved to a new house in Assen, full of excitement about living outside Amsterdam.

So here's my farewell, woman.

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Sunday, October 09, 2005

22:40 Last week at the Badcuyp
A few memorable moments from The Art and Politics of Netporn conference last weekend at the Badcuyp, in Amsterdam:

  • Mark Dery is right when he says you had to be there.

  • His opening presentation included an impressive Hokusai print of a woman being pleasured by an octopus, which stood out as the only image where a female seemed to be having any pleasure at all

  • Paul Mathias stated that porn invariably involves risk: the risk you might find out something unexpected about yourself

  • Barbara de Genevieve showed her baffling, spectacularly energetic transgender sex videos that left many in the audience breathless - I for sure was one of them. The speaker herself had to pause her talk a few times to proudly admire what was going on on the screen behind her - with good reason

  • Mireille Miller-Jones talked about the subtle, positive change of tone in sex sites of black women who manage to take control over their careers - one of them, Sinnamon, claims her status as a 'high-class courtisan and afro-geek'

  • I spoke about my experimental free-for-all (now no more) nakedness on Flickr. The talk generated a number of positive remarks and conversations. These came almost exclusively from men, and none were spoken publicly: people approached me individually, afterwards, during the several breaks

  • Ms. Miller-Jones, on the other hand, commented right away about my preference for the word 'naked' instead of 'nude', pointing out that black people's bodies have always, historically been seen as naked: their right to being nude something yet to be conquered

  • Mikita Brottman's talk brought up a discussion about the myth of shocking images being 'imprinted' or 'burned' into our brains - images that might change the viewer forever. No one seemed to know of plausible research that could prove or disprove that myth

  • Sergio Messina commented on a long stream of his 'real core' images collected from usenet groups ranging from corduroy fetish to everything you can or cannot imagine

  • Some topics were barely discussed, to my disappointment: the impact of USA laws on worldwide distribution of content, distinctions between commercial and not-for-profit production, the fetishization of the 'real'. Next time?

  • The closing party with a live, gooey performance by Adam Zaretsky & Barbara Groves and the cuddly Italian bears of Phag Off will not be forgotten.


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Tuesday, August 16, 2005

18:06 flickr: remember?
Here's the very dry, unfriendly e-mail message I received from Flickr support:
Privates are for Private
Please make your full frontal nuditiy or penis shots Private. This is not appropriate content for Public areas of Flickr. If you do not, we will take further action on
your account that might include termination.
What a disappointment. What a pity. I know there's new legal pressure in the US and I know that the reason behind this message. Poor you, Americans. Of course there's more to life than being able to freely publicize images of one's own body. And it's not like I'm completely surprised. Flickr is still a good service for most people. Even for me, when I want to share my garden pictures, except for some reason they don't seem to bring about any interesting conversations and do nothing to make the world a less self-conscious, shame-ridden place.

For someone like me, all I can think of is: it was good while it lasted - or, actually, before it moved to the US. But hey: business is business. Right? It's just the way it is. Right?

(Dos Pesos face)

I am free just the same - somewhere else, of course - in my mind and in my country - and I am sure Flickr is ok with that. They don't mind freedom. It's just that I'm just not supposed to share it with everyone. Just with a few people. You know, like-minded people.

Never mind me or my shamelessness about my dick and belly. Other than a bit of my joy, something else, something dear, tiny and subtle, is now missing: for what good business stole from Flickr is its original voice. That such an uninspiring, badly written and quasi-agressive text could come from the same place that once that made sure even form buttons had editorial flair, that's what I actually find hard to swallow.

Things change. We move on.

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Monday, August 15, 2005

15:59 Gore Vidal
A quote used by my friend Mike Friedman as one of his many e-mail signatures:
There used to be all those talk shows back in the '50s and '60s, when I was on television a great deal. People would talk about many important things, and you had some very good talkers. They're not allowed on now. Or they're set loose in the Fox Zoo, in which you have a number of people who pretend to be journalists but are really like animals. Each one has his own noise--there's the donkey who brays, there's the pig who squeals. Each one is a different animal in a zoo, making a characteristic noise. The result is chaos, which is what is intended. They don't want the people to know anything, and the people don't."
-- Gore Vidal

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Saturday, August 13, 2005

20:51 Freewayblogger
While Cindy Sheehan is keeping up the great work - hurray, hurray - more DYI people are getting their part of the job done.



See more shots on Freewayblogger. Typography at its most useful.

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Tuesday, August 09, 2005

08:04 Do it yourself, then
Via Truthout: Cindy Sheehan is an angry mom now camped on the road leading to Bush's ranch and saying she won't budge till he comes talk to her. She wants the troops out of Irak and decided to take care of it herself.

For me, social participation and DIY work together very well. In the past two years I volunteered and/or professionally worked for some of the causes or projects that affect my surroundings or the communities I relate to*. At the same time I found a way to reshape my immediate physical and emotional surroundings - my home and relationships - so that it better matches the way I think and live. It cost lots of energy, also to those around me. Combined, these two things took care of much of my complaints and feelings of dissatisfaction, especially about life in Amsterdam (complaining is Amsterdam's favorite sport, a strange sort of social participation).

Going out there (like Cindy Sheehan decided to do) and getting involved with the stuff we keep complaining about not only delivers that particular form of satisfaction - that of dealing with it, but also reveals the real issues that make up that particular situation. It's education at its best.

More reasons for DIY in Caterina's post The Crafting Manifesto

* such as designers - amsterdammers - gays - the elderly - polyamorists - foreigners - gardeners - naturists

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